Living on the Edge

By Mary Jean Belrose, Canada East Mission Centre Co-President

Many years ago, I heard a saying that caught my attention: “If you’re not living on the edge, then you’re taking up too much space.”

It struck me as both a challenge and an invitation—one I decided to accept.

I realized I had a choice: I could sit quietly in my corner, comfortable but complacent, or I could lean into opportunities that stretch me. That means pushing past fear, challenging myself, and resisting the temptation to settle into places that might stall my growth.

It’s a mindset that keeps me awake and honest with myself. If I never try anything new, I risk stagnating. But if I step into an adventure—whether it succeeds or fails—I open the door to an experience that could transform my life.

God, where will your Spirit lead today?... Grant me courage to risk something new and be a blessing of your love and peace. Amen
This posture of risk-taking has shaped many areas of my life: considering new employment, accepting a priesthood call, questioning long-held beliefs, practicing radical compassion, and trusting in what I cannot yet see. It has challenged me to live my faith more fully, even when it’s uncomfortable.

By contrast, “taking up too much space” feels like avoidance—stepping away from self-reflection, growth, and the holy discomfort that can lead to transformation.

Should everyone live on the edge? Not necessarily. Courage has many shapes. Some live with quiet strength, steady care, or deep contemplation. These rhythms are no less powerful, and together they create a beautiful harmony in the world.
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Living on the edge is not superior—it’s simply one expression of faith, courage, and calling. For some, the edge is found in speaking up; for others, in staying steady. What matters is that we keep showing up with openness, integrity, and love.