Authentic connection at the Texas Men’s Retreat

By Troy Roach, Creating Connection Director, Canada East

Last month, I had the privilege of attending the Texas Men’s Retreat—a weekend filled with intentional connection, powerful storytelling, and personal growth. It was a gathering of 18 men, including five young adults, coming together to share their journeys and discover deeper connections with themselves, others, and their purpose.

This retreat was more than just a meeting; it was a celebration of what happens when we intentionally create spaces for people to reconnect with who they truly are and find belonging in a supportive community. It’s in these sacred moments that ministry comes alive, revealing the good things happening within us and around us.

Telling Our Story: Who We Are vs. What We Do
One of the key themes of the retreat was the importance of telling our true story—not just the story of what we do, but the story of who we are. So often, we get caught up in the busyness of life and the responsibilities of ministry, forgetting to pause and reflect on what truly defines us.

The retreat reminded me that our authentic story begins with three foundational building blocks:

1.    Reconnecting with Self
2.    Connecting with Others
​3.    Connecting with Purpose

These elements are not just personal practices; they form the framework for how we live and lead as prophetic people, shaping ministries that reflect our true identity and mission.

Reconnecting with Self
The first step in telling our authentic story is understanding who we are. At the retreat, this meant carving out time and space for personal reflection. Through storytelling sessions and small group conversations, participants were invited to explore their own narratives—identifying what matters most and uncovering parts of themselves that often go unnoticed in daily life.

Reconnecting with ourselves is not a selfish act; it’s the foundation for living with integrity and purpose. When we know who we are, we can lead from a place of authenticity, inspiring others to do the same.

Connecting with Others
Ministry happens in community, and the retreat was a powerful reminder of how vital relationships are to our story. Through shared meals, deep conversations, and moments of laughter, we experienced the transformative power of connection.

It’s in relationships with others that our stories are shaped and refined. By listening and sharing openly, we help one another see our worth and purpose. These connections remind us that we are not alone in our journey and that together, we can create something greater than ourselves.

Connecting with Purpose
Finally, the retreat emphasised the importance of aligning our stories with a greater purpose. For some, this meant reconnecting with their faith or sense of calling. For others, it was about finding the courage to live more authentically in their daily lives.

This alignment is where transformation happens. It’s where we discover the strength to let go of what no longer serves us and step boldly into who we are called to be. In ministry, it’s a reminder that our work is not just about programmes or events—it’s about helping others find their place in a larger story of hope, love, and belonging.

Celebrating Mission Together
The Texas Men’s Retreat was a beautiful example of what can happen when we intentionally create spaces for connection, reflection, and growth. It’s a reminder that ministry is not confined to traditional spaces—it’s alive in every conversation, every shared moment, and every story told from the heart.

As we celebrate this retreat, let’s also celebrate the many ways our ministries are creating opportunities for people to reconnect with themselves, others, and their purpose. Let’s continue to tell the authentic story of who we are as a community—a story of love, inclusion, and transformation.

Thank you for being part of this mission. Together, we are making a difference, one connection at a time.